Is the US really a "loveless" nation?
Mother Theresa reportedly said that she found America to be the most loveless country in the world.
Why?
Because of our priorities.
Wait. I think most of us would say that our family, friends and loved ones - or seeking a relationship/significant other - are at the top of our priorities.
I mean, perhaps the greatest evidence of our priorities is our daily list of things to do:
What do you have written down?
How many of them involve family, friends and loved ones - or seeking that special relationship?
How many of them involve work-related tasks or activities?
How many of them involve both - like having your kids or significant other attend an activity you ordinarily do alone and that they might enjoy?
Does your list of things to do look like this:
9am staff meeting
10am presentation for execs
noon lunch with advertising rep
2pm meeting with VP, sales report
5:30 squash with Bill/gym
6:30 dinner with department head
8pm concert with Beth
Or this:
8:50am call Beth - tell her how much I love her!
9am staff meeting
9:50am pick up flowers for Beth/home
10 meet with execs
noon lunch with Beth - arrange for family vacation
2pm meeting with VP, sales report
3pm arrange for kids' play day Saturday (my week to do this)
5:30 squash with Bill/gym
6pm make dinner with Beth
6:30 dinner with Beth and kids
7:30 help kids with homework (except Friday when we play putt putt golf)
Just a thought.
Why?
Because of our priorities.
Wait. I think most of us would say that our family, friends and loved ones - or seeking a relationship/significant other - are at the top of our priorities.
I mean, perhaps the greatest evidence of our priorities is our daily list of things to do:
What do you have written down?
How many of them involve family, friends and loved ones - or seeking that special relationship?
How many of them involve work-related tasks or activities?
How many of them involve both - like having your kids or significant other attend an activity you ordinarily do alone and that they might enjoy?
Does your list of things to do look like this:
9am staff meeting
10am presentation for execs
noon lunch with advertising rep
2pm meeting with VP, sales report
5:30 squash with Bill/gym
6:30 dinner with department head
8pm concert with Beth
Or this:
8:50am call Beth - tell her how much I love her!
9am staff meeting
9:50am pick up flowers for Beth/home
10 meet with execs
noon lunch with Beth - arrange for family vacation
2pm meeting with VP, sales report
3pm arrange for kids' play day Saturday (my week to do this)
5:30 squash with Bill/gym
6pm make dinner with Beth
6:30 dinner with Beth and kids
7:30 help kids with homework (except Friday when we play putt putt golf)
Just a thought.
Labels: family, love, Mother Theresa, priorities, relationships